{"id":14440,"date":"2019-12-20T15:00:44","date_gmt":"2019-12-20T06:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.oneup.jp\/?post_type=how_to_learn&#038;p=14440"},"modified":"2020-11-12T16:06:17","modified_gmt":"2020-11-12T07:06:17","slug":"life-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/essays\/life-2\/","title":{"rendered":"If You Could Do over Something in Your Life, What Would It Be and Why?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Life gives you one chance to get it right. That's it! No second chances, no do-overs, no <u>mulligans<\/u>, no delete and re-start, it's unfortunate. But what if, just what if we could get a second chance to re-do a certain portion of our life over again? Would you take it, or would you let it pass you by and not take another shot at it?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if the god of second chances came up to me and offered me an opportunity to do over a portion of my life, I think I would take him or her up on it and give it a go. The portion I would like to have a do over of would be the segment in my later teen years, the 16 to 20 years of age portion. Unfortunately life doesn't come with a rule book. I wish it did. We would all have more success. Like any 16 year old, my hormones were in high gear, and I was head over heels in love with this one girl. She was <u>the apple of my eye<\/u>, the one I dreamed of being with, and spending eternity with. I did everything I could to get her attention and to get her to like me back. Unfortunately for me, she didn't feel the same way.<\/p>\n<p>Well, most red-blooded boys my age would just move on and find someone else. You know the saying, \"there's plenty of other fish in the ocean\". Not me. I had to be different. I don't know what made me different, but I didn't give up. I had to be a romantic at heart. I was determined to succeed, even though she turned me down time and again. It was unfortunate, but it wasn't meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>If I could do that part of my life over again, I would give up on her and date others. I didn\u2019t. Instead, I wasted four years of my life <u>doting<\/u> over someone who wouldn\u2019t even give me a chance.<\/p>\n<p>Patrick<\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><\/br><br \/>\n<b>Vocabulary<\/b><\/p>\n<p>mulligan (n) ? a golf term meaning that you get a second chance at something (ie: to hit the ball)<br \/>\napple of one\u2019s eye (exp.) ? someone\u2019s favorite person (or thing); usually a boyfriend or girlfriend<br \/>\ndoting (v) ? to be lavish or excessive in one's attention, fondness, or affection<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life gives you one chance to get it right. That's it! No second chances, no do-overs, no mulligans, no delete and re-sta\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":14485,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14440","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-essays"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14440"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14440"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14440\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14485"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14440"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14440"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oneup.jp\/media\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14440"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}